Those who know me best aren't tooooo surprised. in fact I may be more surprised than they are. Because that's just how I live my life. And how I got here. I don't know what's next. I don't have the answers. I just have lots of questions, curiosity, and an inability to silence that constant nagging in my heart and soul that just craves for 'more.' But more as in more freedom, more love, more joy, more creativity, more magic, more wandering.
Anyway - I have SO MUCH to share. From the past, and into the future and all the new adventures to come.
This is a chubby girls travel blog. And, for now, she's signing off!
In January of 2022, I finally lost my sh*t. All my sh*t. Like my furniture, my home, my jeep. Possibly my sanity too, but that's another matter. I booked a one way trip to South Africa with the plan to 'wing it' from there. No particular plan for my next (or my final) destination. Unsure where (or when) I will have a place to call home next (other than the airports and the airbnbs).
I started my first official business in 2016, a women's online clothing boutique called Thongin' It (you know like the panties and the flip flops). I was my own plus size model for my boutique (along with my other amazing models), and I eventually even got a boutique truck (think converted fedex truck) to sell out of at events. This all eventually led me to branding and web design (for myself first, and then others). Now I run Hot Mess Consulting where my team of 9 and I help other female (and some male) business owners all over the US (and even a few beyond).
I used to NEVER bleach my hair (I had an amazing hair dresser who just refused to double process me), until I went Rainbow during my first trip to South Africa in 2019. Since then, I have not gone back to 'normal' colored hair. I've tried rainbow, mermaid (blue/purple/pink), starburst (red/pink/orange/yellow), arial red, bubblegum (mostly blue/pops of pink and purple), and am currently (June 2022) all blue.
I have two dogs that I miss terribly when I travel. I actually used to be so afraid of dogs (my mom was a UPS driver and had gotten bit and I think that just left an impression on me), until I got my first dog (Missy, a chihuaua shitzu, who I thought was a yorkie shitzu for 14 years until I had her genetics tested for funsies). Anyway Missy opened up a whole new world for me, and dogs are just literally my favorite now. My newest dog (my boy, Boomer) is the sweetest husky you'll ever meet. They are safe and well taken care of while I'm away, but I can't say I don't feel guilty. I can't wait to snuggle with them again.
I have been through some crazy things in life. I am so thankful for even the hardest things as they forced me to develop into the exact person I am right now. And I also know, that even in the worst times, things could always have been even worse. BUT - I've battled a rare tumor for 5 years and won (it was cancer-ish, it's complicated and another story for another day), I was raised by a single teenage mother (absent drug addict father), and I have struggled with promiscuity and substance abuse (I have a total addictive personality, but it seems I've finally figured out how to channel it into better things in life).
PS: TO KEEP THE 'BLOG LIGHTS ON,' I ALSO MAY SHARE AFFILIATE LINKS FOR BRANDS I PERSONALLY USE + TRUST.
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